Lessons from my life. For future reference. Who am I?
Any feeling you get, don't fight it. Just let it consume you. It's like a game of chess with your mind.
The more you fight it or engage your mind with it, the stronger it gets. The more you accept it, you'll be calmer and it'll fade away sooner.
We’re in a hurry to say sorry. We apologize for the wrong thing.
This hurts the other person even more, because they feel that we never understood them.
You can’t rush the other person to forgive you. Seek forgiveness and give it time.
Relax. Give your wounds time to heal. Find your balance.
It'll get tougher and tougher, until it becomes very easy. Keep at it. Don't give up. Try again. You fail only when you stop trying.
Be curious. Ask why and don't stop asking until you are satisfied with the answer.
It's tough to not question everything. But sometimes you need to have faith and just trust the process. Keep an open mind.
Be aware that some answers might be beyond your understanding.
Be aware that there are unknown unknowns – things you don't know that you don't know.
It’s okay to make mistakes. It's not okay to repeat them.
As long as you’ve really understood the actual nature of the mistakes you made and learnt from them.
Mindset is more important than Approach. You cant have the right approach without the right mindset.
Thoughts are meaningless if your approach isn't correct. Your actions will be futile or hurtful, if you haven't thought them through.
Think deeply about the problem you are solving before you think broadly about the ways it can be solved.
And think broadly about the ways a problem can be solved before you think deeply about any one solution to the problem.
Make sure that you try your best that your actions don't hurt others.